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Our Father

The Lord's Prayer isn't a formula to memorize. It's the antidote to the garden.

Our Father

The Lord’s Prayer has been recited so many times and I sometimes wonder if we’ve stopped hearing it.

It has become something we say at funerals and the end of services, words we can run through on autopilot while our minds drift somewhere else. It’s almost as if we’ve treated it as a formula, a prayer to memorize and perform.

When you look at the way Jesus presents the prayer, He never gave it to us as a script, He gave it to us as a posture.

When you understand that, you realize this prayer isn’t a religious recitation at all. It’s the antidote to the garden. Line by line, it restores everything the serpent stole, teaching us how to see again.

“In this manner, therefore, pray…” — Matthew 6:9

Not these exact words. In this manner. This posture. This way of seeing. Let me show you what I mean.

Everything turns on the first two words.

Before this, God was often approached as Adonai — Lord, Master, a distant and holy force to be feared and appeased. Jesus does something completely counter cultural and opens with Father. Not only Father but He encourages us to make it personal with the phrasing our Father. Intimate. Familial. Belonging.

This is where the orphan spirit comes off of us because you cannot pray, “Our Father” and remain an orphan at the same time. The word itself dismantles entitlement, because entitlement is what orphans live by. Orphans have to secure things for themselves, but sons and daughters, come to a Father who is already pleased with them, who loves them, who is holding everything they need.

The very first words out of Jesus’ mouth in this prayer reverses the very first lie in the garden. You are not on your own. You have a Father.

Holy is Your name. Set apart. Honoured.

In the garden, the serpent’s whole strategy was to lower God’s name and make Him questionable. Has God really said? Is He really that good? The twisting always begins by chipping away at the Father’s honour.

This line does the opposite. It restores God to His rightful place. It says: You are holy. You are trustworthy. There is no shadow in You. When we give God the place of honour, the suspicion the serpent planted begins to lose its grip.

This is rank and order being restored. Your governance. Your rule and reign. Not mine.

Remember the heart of the garden lie was I’ll decide for myself what’s good and evil. I want to be my own god. That’s the orphan insisting on their own kingdom. This line surrenders it. Your kingdom, not mine. Your will, not my will or not the will of society, not what someone else says I should want. Yours.

Notice what we’re really asking for: on earth as it is in heaven. God, You have the higher perspective. You see both sides of every issue. You see what I can’t from where I’m standing. So let heaven’s culture permeate my being until I start to see the way You see.

This is the recovery of vision. We lost our sight by trusting our own perception. We get it back by submitting to His.

This is provision for sure but it’s also innocence being restored.

Think about the manna in the desert. When it appeared, the people asked, '“what is this?” That’s literally what the word manna means. God fed His children with a question. He made them inquisitive again. Dependent. Childlike.

The orphan can’t live on daily bread. Orphans need to see the whole supply lined up and secured, because they do not trust there’ll be more tomorrow. Sons and daughters receive today’s portion and trust the Father for tomorrow.

This line makes us inquisitive and innocent again. It’s us saying, “I don’t fully know what this is. You tell me. You show me. You frame it up for me and tell me what it means.” All the pride and self-sufficiency and entitlement comes off, because we’re admitting we don’t have it figured out, and we don’t need to. He does.

Forgive us where we went out of our lane. Where we worried about things that were never ours to carry. Where we stepped into territory we were never meant to occupy.

Then, as we forgive others. This is the soil being kept clean. Unforgiveness, bitterness, and offense, are exactly the things that poison our sight and pull us back into orphan thinking. We can’t see clearly while we’re holding a record of wrongs. Forgiveness keeps the garden free of the weeds that twist our perception.

When we study this part of the passage out, it means when the test comes, let me pass it.

Here’s the thing about tests, they reveal whether the rest of this prayer has actually taken root. Have I really acknowledged that He is my Father? That He is King? That He’s in control and has a good will I can trust? If I have, then when the test comes, the offense, disappointment, or temptation to grab control again, I’ll pass it. I won’t reach for unforgiveness. I won’t pick up bitterness. I won’t fall back into the orphan’s grasping.

Deliver us from evil is not just referring to wickedness, the word “evil”, in the text carries something specific, it translates as toil. The curse in the garden was toil, endless, striving, sweat-of-the-brow labour. To be delivered from evil is, in part, to be delivered from the toil of trying to earn what’s already been given. To stop striving. To come back to rest.

So look at what this prayer actually does.

The garden gave us an orphan spirit, a corrupted way of seeing, entitlement, suspicion, shame, and toil.

The Lord’s Prayer reverses every piece of it:

Our Father restores sonship.

Hallowed be Your name restores honour and trust.

Your kingdom come restores rightful order.

On earth as in heaven restores vision.

Daily bread restores innocence and dependence.

Forgive us keeps the soil clean.

Deliver us breaks the curse of toil.

This prayer was never a formula to memorize. It’s a posture to live in. When you pray it this way, slowly, as a son or daughter rather than a reciter, something in you begins to change. The pride comes off. The striving quiets. And you begin, once again, to see the kingdom.

You begin to co-cultivate with your Father, the way Adam and Eve were always meant to.

Innocent again. Home again.